Ignore the motivational posters and take it easy
Setting goals and persevering is important, but sometimes the best thing you can do is to stop pushing yourself. Here are three instances where letting up can be difficult, but worth it.
It’s easy to reason, “If I just work on this project through my lunch break, I can have it on my boss’s desk by the end of the day.” In a recent survey, one in five people said they worked through their lunch break every day. Of those who did eat, nearly half ate at their desks.
The consequences of all this unabated sitting can range from back and neck pain to increased risk of serious illnesses, such as heart disease and cancer. Even if you’re eating the world’s healthiest salad, if you do it while hunching over a keyboard in the same posture you’ve held for the last five hours, you’re not reaping the health benefits of your lunch break. The operative word is “break.” Leave the desk. Relax. Go for a little walk or try a 10-minute workout.
We all know it’s a bad idea to lift more weight than we can safely handle or stretch further than our bodies can bend. But there’s another reason to dial back the intensity of your workout, especially toward the end: it can make you more apt to work out again.
Think about it: if your workout is pure pain and discomfort till the bitter end, will you really want to put yourself through that experience again? That’s not to say you can’t push your limits. By all means, go hard earlier in the workout. Just make sure you let up at the end. Researchers refer to this as the “peak-end rule.” Our impressions are shaped by how an experience feels at its peak (when it is most intense), but they are also strongly shaped by how we feel right at the end. Even if an experience is somewhat painful, as long as it ends with less pain, we’ll be more apt to remember it positively. Finish your workout on a fun note, and your final impression will leave you wanting to head back to the gym the next day.
Sometimes it’s difficult to recognize that you've been pushing yourself too hard in one area of your life at the expense of another. We might be more physically fit than ever before thanks to a stringent diet and exercise regimen, but when’s the last time we looked after our spiritual health?
It helps to assess each area of our lives: spiritual, mental, physical, and emotional. Do this by assigning each area a number between one and 10 (one being completely lacking, and 10 being totally satisfied). Do you rate lower than a five or six in any area? If so, it’s time to stop pushing in one area and start nurturing another. Make a self-care routine to develop the facets of your life that are languishing.